Partner might Change ,the burning flame might reduce. And it’s all will be left for you to revive it. All healthy and happy marriage face this, they fall in and out of love despite that don’t don’t use as a medium to take a break but add more Charcoal or Gasoline too it. On your first date, it is only natural and human to talk about oneself a little. If however the guy you are going out on a date with is going on forever and a day about his life, his job, his car, his family, his dogs …his, his his …. There is likely going to be problems with compatibility.
Sorry it took so long to get back to you. I don’t know why your ex blocked you on FB. It is impossible to know if someone is truly a narcissist or just an asshole. I’m not a licensed therapist, and a lot of people are quick to diagnose when they shouldn’t. Your ex may not be a narcissist, she may be a sociopath – and while there are similarities – sociopaths rarely look back. A sociopath would cut ties and not give you a second thought. Please seek out counseling as this sounds like a very destructive dynamic that you don’t want to repeat.
She would feign flashes of insight about her behavior. She would cry and apologize – then she would quickly turn it around and blame me for her bad behavior. Then she’d wait a few days and do it all again, an exhausting cycle with no respite. This is what narcissists do; they are incapable of true empathy or insight.
I was married a long time to this type of person and spent a lot of time, doing things on my own such as volunteer work, partime jobs, crafts etc. I know now that by not allowing him to take complete control over my life I was one of the lucky few that survived when the inevitable breakup came. I know now after dealing with the law and other agencies that my life with him was more at risk than I realized at the time. It was painful to totally disolve any relationships that held anyone remotely connected with him but it was the only way that works and has given me the peace of mind that has replaced the primal fear I went through to rid myself of this very sick individual. I know now I was living with a Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde. The freedom and happiness and new friendships I have; I wouldn’t trade for all the money in the world.
Participants largely based these perspectives or goals for current and future relationships on perceptions of what their previous relationships lacked as well as what was responsible for the prior marital relationship ending. Overall, the analysis of the interviews revealed a common perspective of viewing divorce as a catalyst for reinterpretation of relationships that provides a new context for future relationships to thrive.
Discovering what men secretly desire may have been a mystery before, but is well worth the lesson. Understanding what they secretly desire will let you to reach them in a way they have never been touched before, making them view you as something special. Use it for your benefit.