Of course that goes without saying. You will be quite surprised that one out of every three couples gets married for all the wrong reasons. Two out of three couples get married in too much of a hurry without knowing what they are getting into. That leaves only one out of three marriages that will work. If you are having trouble in your relationship investing in relationship guides to help you is nothing to be embarrassed about! Set a date with the people in your life who need your time. Schedule your time with God daily and write it on your daily planner if you have one. Plan a date with your husband and arrange for a sitter if needed. Sit down and listen to your children one on one. Let them know you are interested in them. Plan a fun girls’ night out next month. Maybe go to dinner or a movie or play tennis with a friend. Just remember to keep God’s perspective and balance when making your plans.
But this past weekend, I did something horrible. I went to a concert and drank so much alcohol. After 8 or 9 shots, I was making out with a guy who came with me and my girlfriends. I ended up telling this guy that I find him really attractive and that him and I would be good together as a couple.
Careful of those first impressions! They might be dangerously wrong but sex on first date would be out for me now that I know better even if sparks are there for potential LTR. As former model, I look a lot younger than my age so I notice guys interested in my looks not me & I need love not someone into just looks.
Know how to appreciate each other. No matter how small the gesture may be, appreciate it and don’t let it go unnoticed. When you appreciate your partner, you make them feel like they’ve achieved something in life, you make them feel like they’ve achieved in making you happy and that is a very nice feeling. Appreciate each other.
Whether able-bodied or with special needs, everyone has individual preferences for qualities in their potential partners. These often entail respect, communication, chemistry, common interests and a whole list of individual preferences. Rarely does any of these lists rule-out physical impairment. Although a person’s special needs may be unique or require specific care, it does not have to be a barrier to developing a friendship into a budding relationship. With every relationship needs are openly communicated, shared and respected. Most relationships depend on each other’s ability to meet emotional and physical needs of the other in varying degrees. The old adage, where there is a will, there is a way” applies.
I’ve been computerless for a week, thus the delay in getting back to you. At any rate, I appreciate your comment. If you will notice, I had distinguished between playing hard to get and being hard to get. A woman who is hard to get is a woman who will not allow herself to be disrespected – sort of like you… I also stated that a woman is free to show her interest once she has determined that a man is worth her while. Perhaps you read the last paragraphs too quickly. Having said all that, I stand firm in that a woman must retain a bit of mystery. Mystery is not game playing, it is merely realizing that people are wary of those who wear their hearts on their sleeves every second of every day. Also, dropping anyone cold is judgmental. You would do well to look past the insecurity – hers and yours both. I have no doubt that you are sincere and I wish you well in finding a woman who loves you truly.