When it comes to the things that matter in his life, you notice he is talking to everyone but exactly you noticed his behavior doesn’t matter, he could have suddenly acted this way or he could have gradually became you know is that he is different and you need some help analyzing why, so that you can put your plan B into motion, that is if you have review the signs that follow then create a plan for yourself and/ or relationship that will bring you love and peace. What you are explaining, is more of a mental illness and not narcissism. Everything that you have explained is more like my daughter and not my x-husband. It is actually rare for a woman to be narcissist. I am pretty sure that if she is placed on a anti-depression medication, that you would see a totally different person. My daughter made up things and actually believed what she was saying was the truth, she knew everything but actually really knew nothing. I gave her everything, in fact way too much and if you talk to her I am a horrible person. I am raising her daughter, because if I did not fight for her, she would have been dead, but again she does not see it that way. She will never admit that she is wrong and does not see the world the way a normal person does. When she is on medication, she is actually a different person. See if she will give it a shot, if not, I would move on with your life and stay away from her.
Â. Capricorn Women- It is difficult for a Sagittarian to fulfill a Capricorn’s needs and vice versa. They can learn from each other, but the conflict arises from each of them usually lecturing others. Capricorn envies the Archer’s courage and Sagittarius the goat’s stoicism. Archer’s like to travel and Goats like home and hearth. Goat’s are traditionalists and Archer/Centaurs like to gallop around the world, missing family holidays and Sunday dinners. Capricorn thinks its all a waste of energy. The Archer is too independent to listen after all his questions have answers. His own agenda is important. Conflict happens. How could it not? And the big one is money. She saves, he spends. While he follows what ever takes his attention, the Capricorn will do as she wishes, too. He’s an optimist who can feel really wounded when life bites. She’s a pessimist who sees life as it is and can offer him gruff comfort when he’s living with disappointment. It might work after all.
Even if the boyfriend has no interest in an open relationship with this woman, she will always struggle with having complete trust in him because the bottom-line is he was with another woman when they began their relationship. When it comes to faithfulness he has proven nothing.
While no contact is ultimately the way to go…for some of us staying in contact almost builds our emotional immunity. The more you hear, the less you want to hear as time goes on. In my case, by the time I cut off contact it was just a relief. There was no longer sadness about the loss.
But beyond that fact, this is 2014. If I were to move out, I am in the financial position where I’d be able to afford it. Because it is 2014, a LOT of people AREN’T in the financial position to up and leave who they’ve been sharing a house with for years, children or not.
She won’t argue over meaningless things. Instead, her arguments will be strong and meaningful. Still, if you both get stuck in a situation that you both strongly share a different opinion about, she will find a way around it and get to a conclusion that you both will agree upon.