Guidelines for Success With Dating and Relationships

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I am often surprised to see how singles begin dating those who are incompatible to them. Apparently they are driven by needs which compel them to have a partner no matter what. Here are some criteria to date someone hoping to continue it into a satisfying relationship:

1. Ability to Communicate With Each Other Honestly:

* Can you have an honest and frank conversation with your potential partner? Can you tell him/her how you feel? What kind of a relationship you’d like to have? What expectations and fantasies you have?

* Do you feel there is a mutual trust and respect between the two of you? If you hesitate to answer affirmatively, it means you have doubts. In such a case you better look to have a relationship with someone else.

* Do you feel you can be authentic with this person? Do you perceive him/her to be authentic with you? Being authentic doesn’t necessarily mean you tell one another everything about yourselves right away; but that you feel free to “be who you are” and not pretend to be someone you are not. Many pretend to exaggerate traits and behaviors in order to be liked and appreciated by their

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5 Dating And Relationship Tips

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A first date is always a nervous time for both of you. It’s a journey into the unknown, but also a journey that offers excitement and reward. With my 5 dating and relationship tips, I’m going to tell you how to make the best of that first date. And how to ensure you get more than just one date, to go on and build up a loving and long-lasting relationship.

A loving young couple out on date at a restaurant

1. Distinguish yourself from the ordinary – be different. Don’t use the usual clich├ęs, or make it obvious you are more interested in her body than her mind. Treat her as a real person. Hold eye contact and speak in normal conversational terms. You’ll surprise her.

2. Speak to her about her. Everyone likes the word “you,” and she will be instantly flattered if you want to learn more about her. Ask about her likes and dislikes. Ask about things she’s done, places she’s visited, her ambitions and dreams, etc, etc.

3. Compliment her. But don’t go overboard. Be subtle and honest. The occasional genuine compliment is worth far more than a barrage of compliments on anything and everything.


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Some Tidbits That Are Also Dating and Relationship Advice

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Everyone needs some dating and relationship advice once in a while. Most people aren’t some sort of dating guru and situations come along that they have no idea how to deal with certain situations. So here are a few things that could happen when you’re on a date or in a relationship and some practical answers to your problems:

On your first date, you find out the person isn’t really your type: Either you’re being hasty or they are totally different from you in every way possible. This happens a lot, unsurprisingly — there are a lot of different types of people in the world! If they just seem to have a few differences of opinion than you, don’t run out! You never know, you might be missing out because of something stupid. If they’re on the polar end of the spectrum from you, don’t walk out in the middle of the date or tell your friend to call your phone for an excuse, just sit through it and politely decline a second date.

You’re a guy and you can’t help but stare at a hot girl across the room, or you’re a girl whose boyfriend can’t keep his eyes

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