Let’s get this out of the way right now: Yes, there are serious disadvantages to online dating. There are security and safety concerns. Most colleagues and friends tell me that I should just leave her alone and move on. But i feel something can be saved, because there was so much more to do together and how passionate we were together. It feels so out of the blue, all this. My bf (22) and I (21) are in a relationship for almost 2,5 yrs with the first 2 years being spent long-distance. I’m his first gf, he’s my 3rd bf but the 1st seriously serious one.
As couples get into their routine of day-to-day life together, they often forget to have fun. Remnant non-work hours end up being used for errands, and other personal tasks. For Dena’s part, making the transition into a relationship with Dan was a challenge, but not for the reason one may think. It turns out that Dan is a classic extrovert. Dena is an introvert.
Maybe when my daughter is grown up, completed college/trade school, has left home, maybe then I might look at dating. But I hear from the older women that men their age are lazy, tired, cranky, no sex drive and boring. That’s what I hope this series will be about — applying God’s Word to dating, finding a spouse and getting married.
Jons: I could have purged your worries about eternity, but now it’s too late. But feel, to the very end, the triumph of being alive! We are equals and he is my best-friend so I spoke to him like that. I spoke to my best-friend as honestly as I could, I owned my own feelings and I asked for his help in resolving the feelings I outlined.
If you are financially stable and confident, it wouldn’t mess with his ego. He would proudly brag about you and claim you as his ‘sexy, miss independent’. A man will see his success in your success! During courtship you abide by rules, its protected and guided by both parents in accordance with the culture or Holy bible.
My reply to that was ‘it would feel like killing my own child’. It was a spontaneous response that surprised even me. I do agree with you on this one, porn to men is like a dildo or vibrator to a women. It’s a substitute for human sexual interaction that promotes unrealistic expectations and odd fetishes.