Teaching a guy how to treat you isn’t about barking orders at him or giving ultimatums. It’s about communicating very clearly what you feel is (and isn’t) acceptable behavior in regards to the way he is treating you. Yes, we are all human, and that human nature is fallen. But might I suggest that Our Lord did not come into the pit to camp there with us but to lift us out of it. Plus, never underestimate the power of the Rosary; it has wrought miracles of chastity before and can still do so.
You aren’t alone. It sounds like yours is not the kind of situation I was speaking of in this HUB. It sounds like you are both busy, he prepared you for this prior to the relationship, and most importantly he’s not making time for friends and hanging out and other things before you proving you are not his priority: this is strictly work related.
Now if I was to blow up his phone with texts and/or calls while he was out with another and not give them a moment’s piece, then that’s jealousy. I’m sabotaging M’s time out and therefore destroying his happy time; let alone … Read more