Ellie arrives in my office for her first session. She‘s visibly nervous. As we sit and talk, she places her eyes intently on her feet, breaking away periodically to catch my eyes and smile shyly. She’s been out a few times with another woman she met recently. The woman told her she’s dating other people. Brasileira took that to mean she was playing games. No, she was telling you she’s dating other people so as not to play games. She didn’t say she didn’t want to date the Brasileira too, I explained.
Wow! Thank you for giving me hope. 23 years with him, left me with suicidal tendencies for almost a year. Finally, see the truth, and very sad that at this point in my life, I now have to realize I loved someone with my entire being, was all based on lies. I will probably never get the opportunity to know what love really is, that is very hard to accept.
I think we tend to priorities life differently in terms of work and commitments. I tend to put the people in my life who I love the most first, and sometimes he puts his commitments first and gets … Read more