Sexual relationships create an emotional bond? Nonsense, feminists will say. We use men just as much as men use us. No strings attached! Good tips, surely. I have only one concern: Passions are powerful and lead us astray: don’t be ruled by your feelings but by your head.” I am not certain this is always true. Disordered passions are as strong as all passions, and disordered passions certainly lead us astray. But passion in the general sense is a gift, one that must be subordinated to the will, of course, but which ought to be expressed nevertheless. I do not doubt that young people – especially young people in our society – often have difficulty in determining which passions are proper and which are not. The love/lust conundrum certainly expresses this. But love most certainly has its passionate elements and does not stray into lust when properly understood. Expression of such passion is never wrong. It is exactly what Christ did on the cross. The problem lies, rather, in the misunderstanding of one vs. the other – which is where the will must come into play.
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